So, I'm waiting for a call to start, and I go to Drew Curtis's Fark. There's an MSNBC story on the top of the stack, tagged with "ASININE" and the descriptor "I cheated on my husband and destroyed my marriage. Obviously the problem is that I didn't have enough husbands, and a community of women to communally care for my children "
The genius of Fark cannot be underestimated. Everyone I know is burning the candles at both ends because they have it all -- marriage, kids, good jobs, career challenges, outside interests. And, for the most part, no one I love or befriend is so fucking thankless or self-absorbed as to bitch about these challenges. And, no one I hang with is so fucking narcisistic as to extrapolate their own personal challenges as indicative of a "meta" experience for the American society as a whole. Warning: Rant coming!
The video below, and the companion story in the Atlantic, by Sandra Tsing Loh, is the most self-unaware example of authorship and publishing ever. While elegantly written, and a well constructed argument, the premise is so fucking ridiculous that I wanted to carve my eyes out with a rusty spoon. In short, women ( really people as a society) need to rethink the need for marriage.
Have we learned nothing from the political times? Do we not know that marriage is a religious institution or a personal/individual choice to apply for a state sanctioned class, defined as the voters of a state or municipality choose to define it (I'm pro gay marriage, btw)? Why should the media pedal these ludicrous ideas of rethinking marriage as a societal construct? My friend Jeremy Zawodny would have some juicy thoughts on the media's interest in perpetuating this shit, but I digress.
The main point here is that this lady is a characature, a very ugly distortion of the people involved in the divorce rate. Who cheats on their husband and ruins a bueacolic life because they aren't getting enough out of their relationship?
The answer is simple: Idiots that don't understand life -- that's who. Life, and this includes marriage, is what you put into it... and, yes, you're an idiot if you're in your forties or fifties and you've been married twenty years and you don't know this. Sandra is most definitely an idiot.
In the article, Sandra chooses to cast her life and effort as thankless efforts, and even casually chides the new (read younger) American male trying to put more into their home-life by taking on more traditional female/mother efforts around the house. In the video she jumps right into challenging the realisticness of marriage in a modern context... what?!
I feel sorry for Sandra's ex-husband and her next victim. And, based on her self-glorifying descriptions of her parental superpowers, I'm betting that her kids need some sympathy too.
As for the read, it's idiotic drivel, but if you want to see a smart person come undone in their own qwerty juice, read it. Here's the video of an interview with a half-witted Viera and some other random that actually has some common sense.
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